因为我是肖邦的狂热粉丝，所以在影院里看到预告的时候，我就决定一定要看这部电影。期间，不知道感动到流泪多少次。记得Ben问他的侄孙（Joey）:Have you ever been in love?的时候，他说：“Love, you know it."
先说主题
当我提“同志电影”的时候，我其实是在局限这部电影。推广人可以用这个词作为电影的噱头，但是这绝不是去形容这部电影的合适词汇。比如，乱世佳人讲得是爱情吗？不是，它讲得是战争。那么这部电影讲得是同志爱吗？不是，它讲得是爱情。而同行婚姻带给他们的问题——比如教会因为George举行了婚礼而开除了他——在我看来不过是一个符号，一个每一段感情或者每一个婚姻都会面对挑战的符号。
有几场感动的场景
1，George自从搬进朋友家才发现他们天天举行派对，根本无法休息，时间久了，心中充满委屈，终于在一天晚上受不了了。此时的纽约下着瓢泼大雨。而另一边，Ben在侄子家也受着“嫌弃”，一个人坐在餐桌上吃饭，门铃响了。Ben打开门，看见浑身湿漉漉的George，两人相拥而泣。他们彼此的委屈，只有他们彼此能够了解。
2，当天晚上
因为在视频网站上看到了Keep the lights on，想重温一下，但是在父母家看那么多真实的性爱场面，却有点战战兢兢，于是翻查了后来导演又拍了哪些作品。
也很奇怪，没有选择最新的Little Men，却选择了这部，爱很怪，love is strange。我只能说，这部戏，令我重新考虑继续寻求爱侣。终身爱侣。
三十岁的当下，最经常出现的想法，是爱自己。寻得自己，让自己更好，以及令自己开心。爱情如此烦恼，又捉摸不定，于是不要太过上心，也切勿太过沉迷。如遇到任性恋人，也不要和自己过不去，再见好似口头禅轻松
Dear parents,
by now you've all heard of my joyful news and of my sad news. To be able to finally marry Benjamin Hull, my partner of almost 40 years, in a small ceremony here in New York was one of my happiest moment of my life. Unfortunately, later I found out that I could no longer continue to teach music at St.Grace's. Most of you and everyone at school knew that I was gay and that Ben was my lifelong partner. I've always had nothing but support from all of you. So I would like to thank you and to emphasize that I understand what happened is not the fault of St.Grace's and its leadership.
Above all, I urge you to have a conversation with your children about whether or not justice was served here. The last thing I want them to take from this is they should hide who they are or what they think if they believe it will get them into trouble.
爱很怪：艾拉·萨克斯作品，《愛，不散》：愛情的模樣
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